Beautiful 10 lines

Beautiful 10 lines

“`✒SOMEONE HAS WRITTEN THESE 10 BEAUTIFUL LINES. READ and TRY to UNDERSTAND the DEEPER MEANING of THEM.

📎 1). PRAYER is not a “spare wheel” that YOU PULL OUT when IN trouble, but it is a “STEERING WHEEL” that DIRECT the RIGHT PATH THROUGHOUT LIFE.

📎2). Why is a CAR’S WINDSHIELD so LARGE & the REAR VIEW MIRROR so small? BECAUSE our PAST is NOT as IMPORTANT as OUR FUTURE. So, LOOK AHEAD and MOVE ON.

📎3). FRIENDSHIP is like a BOOK. It takes a FEW SECONDS to BURN, but it TAKES YEARS to WRITE.

📎4). All THINGS in LIFE are TEMPORARY. If they are GOING WELL, ENJOY them, they WILL NOT LAST FOREVER. If they are going wrong, don’t WORRY, THEY CAN’T LAST LONG EITHER.

📎5). Old FRIENDS are GOLD! NEW friends are DIAMONDS! If you GET a DIAMOND, DON’T FORGET the GOLD! To HOLD a DIAMOND, you ALWAYS NEED a BASE of GOLD!

📎6). Often when WE LOSE HOPE and THINK this is the END, GOD SMILES from ABOVE and SAYS, “RELAX, SWEETHEART; it’s JUST a BEND, NOT THE END!”

📎7). When GOD SOLVES your PROBLEMS, you HAVE FAITH in HIS ABILITIES; when GOD DOESN’T SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS, HE has FAITH in YOUR ABILITIES.

📎8). A BLIND PERSON asked GOD: “CAN THERE be ANYTHING WORSE THAN LOSING EYE SIGHT?” HE REPLIED: “YES, LOSING YOUR VISION!”

📎9). When YOU PRAY for OTHERS, GOD LISTENS to YOU and BLESSES THEM, and SOMETIMES, when you are SAFE and HAPPY, REMEMBER that SOMEONE has PRAYED for YOU.

📎10). WORRYING does NOT TAKE AWAY TOMORROW’S TROUBLES; IT TAKES AWAY today’s PEACE.

If you ENJOYED this, please COPY it and PASS it to OTHERS. It may BRIGHTEN SOMEONE else’s DAY, too…..“`

SOME IRONIES

SOME IRONIES

1.
Politicians *Divide* Us,
Terrorists *Unite* Us.

2.
Everyone Is In Hurry ,
But
*NO ONE* Reaches In Time

3.
Priyanka Chopra Earned More Money Playing *Mary Kom*,
Than The Mary Kom Earned In Her Entire Career.

4.
Most People Who Fight Over *Gita And Quran*,
Have Probably Never Read Any Of Them.

5.
We Rather Spend More On Our Daughter’s *WEDDING*
Than On Her *EDUCATION*

6.
The *SHOES* That We Wear Are Sold In Air Conditioned Show Rooms,
The *VEGETABLES* That We Eat Are Sold On The Footpaths.

7.
We Live In A Country Where Seeing A *POLICEMAN* Makes Us Nervous Rather Than Feeling Safe.

8.
In IAS Exam, A Person Writes A Brilliant 1500 Words Essay About How Dowry Is A Social Evil And *CRACKS THE EXAM* By Impressing Everyone.
One Year Later His Parents Demand A Dowry In Crores, Because He Is An IAS Officer.

9.
Indians Are Obsessed With Screen Guards On Their Smartphones Even Though Most Come With Scratch Proof Gorilla Glass But Never Bother Wearing A *HELMET* While Riding Bikes

*One Of The Best Ever Lines :*

Try To Understand People Before Trusting Them
*BECAUSE*
We Are Living In Such A World,
Where Artificial Lemon Flavor Is Used For
*”WELCOME DRINK”*
And Real Lemon Is Used In
*”FINGER BOWL”*

Retirement – YOUR DESK AT YOUR WORK PLACE IS NOT PERMANENT. PLAN FOR YOUR RETIREMENT

*Retirement*

*1. one day you will retire.* You won’t be going to work. You won’t have office power any more. No influence or at best, a reduced influence. Your cash flow will also reduce.! Check retirement date on your payslip.

*2. Always go for your 30days annual leave.* Whatever you do during your leave, is what you will be doing when you retire. If all you do is to sleep or watch TV, then that’s what you are likely do do in your retirement. Remember the book of Proverbs. A little sleep and a little slumber, so shall your poverty multiply.
Watching Big Brother Naija will not save you heartache in retirement. Learn a trade or a skill during your leave. It will come handy. Spend your after-office hours learning something. Don’t spend it sleeping, Gossiping, watching TV!! Same goes for your weekend. Make them productive. You will thank yourself for spending your time productively.

*3. Invest for your retirement.*.. your children are not retirement investment. Don’t bank on your children’s support or the support of friends or relations. That’s a BIG risk. It may not happen. Be ready to take care of yourself!! Everyone has his own responsibilities. They won’t be able to help you that much. You will also lose your dignity and respect if you adopt a life of begging.

*4. Start a hobby* early in your working days to take you along when you retire. Rearing chicken, farming or own a shop. Acquire marketable skills ( not useless paper certificates) Etc

*5. Where shall you retire.* Build yourself a home. Don’t retire and start to rent a house or refuse to vacate government house. You will be at the mercy of your landlord at a time when your cash flow is not only reduced but unpredictable!!

*6. Who shall be your dependants.* By the time you retire, your children should be above 18, and self reliant.

*7. Don’t retire and stay in a big city* unless you can TRULY afford it. You can’t continue living in a big city after 60 with limited financial resources. The language and the hustle will be hard for you. Where possible, Relocate to a less expensive town where your reduced take home (pension) can go further.

*8. Have property which can be rented or converted into cash*. Have shares that pay good dividends. Plant cash trees. Rear goats, cultivate vegetables etc. these activities will not only give you income but will also keep you healthy.

*9. Live a simple life*. If you never built a house at your rural home, dont use your retirement package to build. It is unwise unless you plan to live there on a permanent basis or you are super rich and therefore can afford the luxury. The choice is yours.

*Note that many of retirees die early because of the following*:

1. They are Not mentally prepared to retire.
2. Lack of finances
3. They Lapse into Depression
4 They develop Hypertension/ Diabetes because of worries, anxiety and uncertainty “and financial pressures. (May God protect us from all these)

YOUR DESK AT YOUR WORK PLACE IS NOT PERMANENT. PLAN FOR YOUR RETIREMENT.

ALLL ABOUT HEALING INNER CHILD

ALL ABOUT HEALING INNER CHILD

We are all inherently magnificent beings with limitless potential for experiencing and expressing unconditional love, joy and creativity. However, to fully experience our true nature, the child within must be embraced and expressed! Unless we reconnect with our inner-child in a safe and unconditional environment, the child within will remain isolated and alone. By fully reintegrating with our inner-child, we can become complete human beings and once again feel whole.

*What is INNER CHILD?*

The inner child has many names. It is called our authentic self, real self, natural child, core self, our creative energy, our inner place of knowing. Inner Child is:
• Part of us which is embodiment of divine essence that is eternally joyful, unconditionally loving, all embracing, creative, spontaneous, playful
• Inner Child reminds us of our WHOLENESS

*Definition of the wounded Inner Child:*

The wounded “Inner Child” is the egocentric, severed parts of you that felt hurt, terrified, vulnerable and neglected and never allowed to express himself / herself. The severed part of us might contains certain qualities like frankness, innocence, fearlessness, fun loving, etc. that after few incidents, we feel incomplete and miss these qualities in ourselves.

*How the wounded “Inner Children” come into our life:*

The wounded “Inner Children” came into our life because we were:
• Forced to adapt specific behaviors and views from our parents & society. For example:
 Real men don’t cry.
 Showing emotion is a sign of weakness.
 Assertiveness is not a good quality.
• Denied to express our true feelings.
• Denied of our true self so that we can be accepted and loved.

*Signs of the existence of the wounded Inner Child:*

• Constant mistrust about life.
• Fear of intimacy.
• Seeking to please our parents and others.
• Having problems with authority and hierarchy.
• Constant needs to judge, criticize, condemn and blame ourselves and others for our problems.
• Holding onto anger, resentment, jealousy, fear, and guilt.
• Constant feeling of loneliness, isolation and separation from everyone.
• Having a strong attitude of “what is in this for me?” in everything we do.

*Risks of suppressing the wounded Inner Child:*

When we suppress our wounded “Inner Children,” we run the risks of:
• Not being able to enjoy and appreciate life fully.
• Not being able to relax and manage stress.
• Not being able to feel fully alive.
• Not being able to love and trust.
• Taking ourselves too seriously in everything we do.
• Becoming workaholics in order to hide our past issues and childhood wounds.

*Benefits of healing the wounded Inner Child:*

• FEEL WHOLE AND COMPLETED
• True freedom from the past by releasing old patterns
• New sense of freedom to express oneself
• Live life joyfully and ability to stay in the present moment
• Restore the natural sense of wonder, playfulness, spontaneity, optimism and resilience

A poem written by Wg Cdr Abhinav’s sister living in France: –

A poem written by Wg Cdr Abhinav’s sister living in France: –

My Brother With a Bloodied Nose

My brother with a bloodied nose,
And officer and gentleman.
Landed across the Line of Control today.
Ejecting after doing the best he can.

They caught him on their land and then,
Thrashed him like perhaps any of us would.
Till the army stepped in and dispersed them.
And rescued him while they could.

They asked him who he was and he said,
With poise and utmost grace.
A flying pilot of the Indian Air Force.
Battered, bruised, but with a proud face.

If only the general public could,
Muster a milligram of the same poise.
And realize that their war drum beating.
Is a ridiculous dangerous noise.

My brother with a bloodied nose,
He stood there firm and tall.
And smiled in the face of his captors.
And taught us the biggest lesson of them all.

That bravery is not ordered online,
Does not ship overnight on Amazon Prime.
Tis not the moment of jingoism and memes.
For armchair aggro tis not the time.

My brother with a bloodied nose,
Thank you for your dedication and verve.
Your class and bravery I fear though,
Is a little more than some of us deserve.

For those whose fury takes wing today,
Who have no idea what it’s like.
To parachute into enemy territory,
Taking a hit in a combat strike.

My brother with a bloodied nose,
You’ve taught a lesson to us all.
You can bail out of an aircraft at high speed,
And yet to lows never fall.

And keep your cheer and character in times,
Of uncertainty in the face of death.
And learn again to behave as human beings,
If we only would our conscience let.

My brother with a bloodied nose.
Keep you chin up, enjoy the brew.
A salute to your sacrifice today and forever.
Hold on a while, we’re coming to get you.

My brother With a bloodied nose.
The bison who took on the sun.
Here’s to you and all those that stand guard for us.
Nabah Sparsam Diptam.

Salute!!!!!!

20 Facts Of Life You Better Know:

20 Facts Of Life You Better Know:

1. Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes.

2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there’s a 50% chance you’ll die within the next 3 years.

3. There are at least 6 people in the world who look exactly like you. There’s a 9% chance that you’ll meet one of them in your lifetime.

4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain and keeps your spine stronger.

5. A person’s height is determined by their father, and their weight is determined by their mother.

6. If a part of your body “falls asleep”, you can almost always “wake it up” by shaking your head.

7. There are three things the human brain cannot resist noticing – Food, attractive people and danger

8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on their right side

9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly shoes will absorb the unpleasant odour.

10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees were to disappear from earth, humans would be dead within 4 years.

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11. There are so many kind of apples, that if you ate a new one everyday, it would take over 20 years to try them all.

12. You can survive without eating for weeks, but you will only live 11 days without sleeping.

13. People who laugh a lot are healthier than those who don’t.

14. Laziness and inactivity kills just as many people as smoking.

15. A human brain has a capacity to store 5 times as much information as Wikipedia

16. Our brain uses same amount power as 10-watt light bulb!!

17. Our body gives enough heat in 30 mins to boil 1.5 litres of water!!

18. The Ovum egg is the largest cell and the sperm is the smallest cell !!

19. Stomach acid (conc. HCl) is strong enough to dissolve razor blades!!

20. SMILE. It is the ultimate antidepressant.

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A study by Dr. Ephrem Cheng, a leading American scholar, on the relationship between life expectancy and retirement age ( Age at Retirement Vs Life Span)

Worth a read & thought 👇🏼

A study by Dr. Ephrem Cheng, a leading American scholar, on the relationship between life expectancy and retirement age ( Age at Retirement Vs Life Span) The investigation report. The report netted several pension plans for U.S. supermajority groups, including Boeing, AT&T and Ford Motor Co., and found that the later the executive retires, the shorter his or her life! The statistics are as follows:

Retirement age, age of death
49.9                  86
51.2                  85.3
52.5                  84.6
53.8                  83.9
55.1                  83.2
56.4                  82.5
57.2                  81.4
58.3                  80
59.2                  78.5
60.1                 76.8
61                     74.5
62.1                  71.8
63.1                 69.3
64.1                  67.9
65.2                  66.8

Almost all large organizations are in agreement, and full-time managers who retire at the age of sixty-five usually die within eighteen months! As a result, quite a number of pension reserves have not been claimed. Dr. Cheng then launched a comprehensive survey, and the above statistics concluded that the later you retire, the earlier you die.
Full-time managers face enormous pressure every day, constantly living in the emotional tension, but also need to cling to, so it is easy to push themselves to the edge of collapse. This mental and mental state seriously damages the organs and cells of the body, forming a long-term high-pressure state. Before you know it, your health will be cut short. Thus, at the age of sixty-five, when he retires, he is relieved of all his latent diseases, and within eighteen months he is gone.
The findings have shocked American executives, so they say life is good enough, and they retire at 50. These senior retirees are not totally out of work. They just re-plan their lives and lives, relax and only take part-time and interesting jobs and stop pursuing power and luxury.
According to the survey, the healthy decline of these 50-year-olds after they started their second spring has greatly improved. Many of them did not go to heaven until they were 85 years old. According to the survey, this group of 50-year-old retirees had their health plummeted.
Dr. Cheng pointed out that the sooner you leave the circle of power and money and get rid of the shackles of fame and luxury, the happier you will be and the longer you will be able to live a basic life. Working as a philanthropist, in particular, is more conscious of living meaningfully, and as a result, the immune system is strengthened and the lifeline is prolonged.