5 FACTORS OF TAKING CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

5 FACTORS OF TAKING CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

*1) Understand that no experience comes labeled. You are the labeler.*

The power to choose is yours! As William Shakespeare said, “Nothing is good or bad but thinking makes it so”. You and only you are the labeler of your experiences.

Do you complain that roses have thorns or do you rejoice that thorns have roses? You have the ability to choose your reactions.

All too often, these decisions to label are not done consciously and your internal dialog will slap on a negative label. You must be aware of this and change it immediately. Realizing your ability to label is an awesome power and a great step towards success. Upon taking control, you can select empowering labels in place of the negative ones. You are in control of the experience.

*2) Avoid blaming yourself for making mistakes.*

The road to success is always under construction. Every morning we awake to a day we have never seen or experienced. Mistakes will be made and obstacles will appear. You have no control over these events but you do control your reaction to them.

It is important that we forgive ourselves for making mistakes. We need to learn from our errors and move on. It is when we hurt that we learn. The power to choose how much we learn is ours. Do you see a stumbling block or a stepping-stone? You decide.

*3) Understand that like energies attract.*

Like attracts like. Positive thoughts produce positive results. If you surround yourself in positive emotions, energies, thoughts, and people then positive events will be the end result. Unfortunately, the same is true if you surround yourself in negative energies.

Do you know someone that is always negative and melancholy? Notice that bad luck seems to continuously follow them. They may say that a rain cloud is right above his or her head. Well, they’re right. And as soon as they realize that it is they who create that rain cloud they can chose to make it disappear.

What you plant, so shall you harvest. If you plant rose seeds you get roses right? Plant seeds of happiness, hope, success, and love; it will all come back to you in abundance. This is the law of nature.

*4) Determine what you want and act on it.*

Imagine an archer that did not have a target to shoot his arrow at. He would fire his arrows aimlessly and would not be successful.

Have a goal, write it down, and act upon that goal. Now that there is a clear target you can have a plan of action. A visible target it easier to hit.

Nobody ever sat his or her way to success. It takes hard work, motivation, a positive attitude and a strong belief that you can do it. That combination produces what we call luck. Do not sit back and wait for life to happen to you. Have a plan and take the needed steps to create what you want.

*5) Choose to feel happy.*

It has been said “Act as if and you will become.” Try it. It really works. Put your chin up, smile, and think positive thoughts. Remember the happy times and notice all you have to be grateful for and you will feel lighter, happier and more empowered.

If you frown, groan, grumble, and focus on everything wrong in the world you will feel down, lethargic and negative. Why bother with that? Identify the things and people that make you feel unhappy and eliminate them from your life. Nothing good can come from them.

Choose to be happy and positive. Take steps to insure a more joyful and positive life. Do happy things; see positive movies, read good books, be around positive people, and practice affirmations. Identify the things and people that bring you happy feelings and surround yourself with them. Cultivate your relationship with yourself and you will be successful.

Taking control of your life takes time and requires decisions. The rewards make the efforts worth it.

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My Wife DOES NOT WORK !!!* Conversation between a Husband *( H )* and a Psychologist

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β­• *My Wife DOES NOT WORK !!!*

Conversation between a Husband *( H )* and a Psychologist *( P )* :

*P :* What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy ?
*H :* I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

*P :* Your Wife ?
*H :* She doesn’t work. She’s a Housewife only.

*P :* Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning?
*H :* My Wife, because she doesn’t work.

*P :* At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast ?
*H :* She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

*P :* How do your kids go to school ?
*H :* My wife takes them to school, because she doesn’t work.

*P :* After taking your kids to school, what does she do ?
*H :* She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn’t work.

*P :* In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
*H :* Take rest, because i’m tired after work.

*P :* What does your wife do then ?
*H :* She prepares meals, serves our kids, prepares meals for me and cleans the dishes, cleans the house then takes the kids to bed.

πŸ€ The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late night.

*That is called ‘DOESN’T WORK ??!!*

πŸ€ Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study but their ROLE is very important !

πŸ€ Appreciate your wives.

Because their sacrifices are uncountable.

This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles.

Some one asked her…….
Are you a working woman or a house-
wife ??

*She Replied :* Yes I am a full time
working house-wife.
I work 24 hours a day…..

I’m a ” mum “,
I’m a wife,
I’m a daughter,
I’m a daughter-in-law…..
I’m an Alarm clock,
I’m a Cook,
I’m a Maid,
I’m a Teacher,
I’m a waiter,
I’m a nanny,
I’m a nurse,
I’m a handyman,
I’m a Security officer,
I’m a Counsellor,
I’m a comforter,

I don’t get holidays,
I don’t get sick leave,
I don’t get day off……

I work through day and night…..

I’m on call……

All hours and get paid with a sentence…..

” what do you do all day ”

*Dedicated to all women*😘😊

πŸ€ Woman is like salt
Her presence is never remembered but Her absence makes all the things tasteless !πŸ‘

Pass it to all the lovely ladies…..
Your Mother. …..
Your Wife……
Your daughter …
Your sister…..
Your friend😊

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*School*
A place where Parents pay and children play

*Life Insurance*
A contract that keeps you poor all your life
so that you can die Rich.

*Nurse*:
A person who wakes u up to give you sleeping pills.

*Marriage*
It’s an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor degree and a woman gains her masters..

*Tears*
The hydraulic force by which masculine willpower is defeated by feminine waterpower.

*Lecture*
An art of transferring information from the notes of the Lecturer to the notes of the students without passing through “the minds of either”

*Conference*
The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present.

*Conference Room*
A place where everybody talks, nobody listens and everybody disagrees later on

*Father*
A banker provided by nature

*Criminal*
A person no different from the rest
….except that he/she got caught

*Boss*
Someone who is early when you are late and late when you are early

*Politician*
One who shakes your hand before elections and
your Confidence after

*DOCTOR*
A person who holds your ills by pills, and kills you by bills.

*Smile*
A curve that can set a lot of things straight.

*Office*
A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life.

*Yawn*
The only time some married men ever get to open their mouth.

*Etc*.
A sign to make others believe that you know more than you actually do.

*Committee*
Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together.

*Atom Bomb*
An invention to end all inventions.

#Laughter makes life**Easy…!!

Time to Time Update & Upgrade” Run with time and get success.

In 1998, Kodak employed 1,70,000 employees and sold 85% of the world’s photo papers. Within the last few years, digital photography made them out of the market. Kodak went bankrupt and all his staff came on the road. .

HMT (clock)
BAJAJ (scooter)
DYNORA (TV)
MURPHY (radio)
NOKIA (Mobile)
RAJDOOT (bike)
AMBASDOR (car)

Friends,
There was no shortage of quality at all, yet they were out of the market !!
reason???
They have not changed over time. !!

You have an idea that in the coming 10 years, the world will change completely and 70 to 90% of the companies Β running today will be closed.

Welcome to the 4th Industrial Revolution …

Uber is just a software. He does not have a single car of his own, despite this he is the world’s largest taxi company.

Airbnb is the world’s largest hotel company, while they do not have a single hotel of their own.

There are many examples like paytm, ola cabs, oyo rooms.

There is no work left for young lawyers in the US now because the software named IBM Watson gives better legal advice throughout the moment. In the next 10 years, 90% of Americans will become unemployed … who will save 10% … they will be Super Specialists.

The software named Watson is diagnosed with 4x Accuracy of Cancer compared to humans. By 2030 the computer will be more intelligent than humans.

By 2018, Driverless cars will land on the roads. By 2020, this single invention will start to change the whole world.

90% cars will disappear from the streets of the world in the next 10 years … Those who will survive will either have electric cars or hybrid … roads will be empty, consumption of petrol will decrease by 90%, all Arab countries will become bankrupt .

You will request a car from a software like Uber and in a few moments, a driverless car will be parked at your door … if you share it with someone, that ride will be cheaper than your bike.

Due to being a driverless of cars, 99% of accidents will stop. This will stop the business of Car Insurance.

No employment like a driver will survive on earth. When 90% cars will disappear from cities and roads, problems like Traffic and Parking will end automatically … because a car will be equal to 20 cars today.

From today 5 or 10 years ago, there was no such place where there is no PCO. Then when the mobile phone came in all the pockets, the PCO started to shut down. Then all the PCO people started selling the phone again. Now the recharge is also going on line.

Have you ever noticed ..?

Nowadays every third store in the market is now mobile phone.
sale, service, recharge, accessories, repair, maintenance.

Now all is done by Paytm .. Now people have started booking railway tickets with their phones. Now the transaction of money is also changing. Currency Note was replaced by Plastic Money and now Digital becomes Transactions are

The world is changing very fast .. Keep the eye ears nose open or else you will lose …

Prepare to change over time.

Hence…
The person should continue to make changes in his business and his nature over time.

“Time to Time Update & Upgrade”

Run with time and get success.

A very interesting read about Mahabharat and Kurukshetra War

A very interesting read!!

It is said in the texts that 80% of the fighting male population of the civilization was wiped out in the eighteen days Mahabharata war.

Sanjay, at the end of the war went to the spot where the greatest war took place; Kurukshetra.

He looked around and wondered if the war really happened, if the ground beneath him had soaked all that blood, if the great Pandavas and Krishna stood where he stood.

β€œYou will never know the truth about that!” said an aging soft voice.

Sanjay turned around to find an Old man in saffron robes appearing out of a column of dust.

β€œI know you are here to find out about the Kurukshetra war, but *you cannot know about that war till you know what the real war is about*.” the Old man said enigmatically.

β€œWhat do you mean?”

*The Mahabharata is an Epic, a ballad, perhaps a reality, but definitely a philosophy*.

The Old man smiled luring Sanjay into more questions.

β€œCan you tell me what the philosophy is then?”
Sanjay requested.

Sure, began the Old man.

*The Pandavas are nothing but your five senses*,
sight,
smell,
taste,
touch
and sound…,

and do you know what the *Kauravas* are?
he asked narrowing his eyes.

*The Kauravas are the hundred vices that attack your senses everyday but you can fight them*… and do you know how?

Sanjay shook his head again.

β€œWhen Krishna rides your chariot!”

The Old man smiled brighter and Sanjay gasped at that gem of insight.

*Krishna is your inner voice, your soul, your guiding light and if you let your life in his hands you have nothing to worry*.

Sanjay was stupefied but came around quickly with another question.

β€œThen *why are Dronacharya and Bhishma fighting for the Kauravas, if they are vices*?”

The Old man nodded, sadder for the question.

It just means that as you grow up, your perception of your elders change. *The elders who you thought were perfect in your growing up years are not all that perfect. They have faults. And one day you will have to decide if they are for your good or your bad. Then you may also realize that you may have to fight them for the good. It is the hardest part of growing up and that is why the Geeta is important*.

Sanjay slumped down on the ground, not because he was tired but because he could understand and was struck by the enormity of it all.

*What about Karna*? he whispered.

β€œAh!” said the Old man. β€œYou have saved the best for last. *Karna is the brother to your senses, he is desire, he is a part of you but stands with the vices. He feels wronged and makes excuses for being with the vices as your desire does all the time.*

*Does your desire not give you excuses to embrace vices*?”

Sanjay nodded silently. He looked at the ground, consumed with a million thoughts, trying to put everything together and then when he looked up the Old man was gone….
disappeared in the column of dust………leaving behind the great philosophy of Life!
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